By 3PM, I’m Not the Same Person

Meetings drain me. Decisions feel heavier. This isn’t who I used to be.

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I Used To Be Sharp

I’m still putting in the hours. Still waking up early. Still answering emails before most people pour their first coffee. But I’m not as sharp as I used to be.

Meetings drain me now. Decisions feel heavier. I reread emails twice before hitting send. I used to enjoy high-pressure conversations. Now I feel like I’m pushing through them.

By 3PM, I don’t just feel tired. I crash.

And it’s a harder crash than it used to be.

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The Quiet Shift

At first, I told myself it was stress. Or age. Or just “a busy season.” But the season never ended.

I’d walk into meetings and forget simple numbers. I’d sit at my desk staring at a problem that normally would’ve taken me ten minutes to solve. I started avoiding high-stakes calls because I didn’t trust my own thinking.

That’s when it hit me.

This isn’t who I used to be.

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The Nightmare I Didn’t Say Out Loud

The scariest part wasn’t the fatigue. It was the edge loss.

When your identity is built on being decisive… being reliable… being the person others lean on — losing that feels like losing yourself.

I started wondering if people noticed. If my team felt it. If my boss felt it. I imagined someone younger, faster, sharper stepping in.

And I hated that thought. not because of ego.

It’s Not Burnout. But It Feels Like It.

Everyone talks about burnout. But I’m still working. Still showing up. Still pushing.

It doesn’t feel like quitting. It feels like friction. Like I’m operating at 70% and no matter how much I sleep, that missing 30% won’t come back.

And when you’re used to performing at 110%, that gap feels unbearable.

Because I miss my drive.

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What I Learned About My 3PM Crash

I kept telling myself it was just stress. Or age. Or the cost of ambition. I was still putting in the hours. I was still showing up prepared. But around 3PM, something shifted. Meetings felt heavier. Decisions took more effort. Conversations I used to lead confidently started requiring conscious focus. I wasn’t exhausted — I was slowed.

And what unsettled me most was this: I hadn’t changed my work ethic. So why did it feel like my edge was slipping?

At some point, I stopped blaming discipline and started asking better questions. That’s when I learned that iron isn’t only about anemia. It plays a central role in oxygen delivery to the brain and in sustaining mental energy. And low iron doesn’t always show up as dramatic symptoms. Sometimes it shows up subtly — as brain fog, harder focus, a sharper crash in the afternoon, or the feeling that you’re working harder for the same output.

That reframed everything for me. What I was experiencing didn’t feel like burnout. It felt like running slightly under-fueled. As if the drive was still there — but the support system underneath it wasn’t.

And that was hopeful.

Because if my edge wasn’t gone — just depleted — then it wasn’t about pushing harder. It was about supporting what might be missing. Not another coffee. Not another productivity system. A targeted way to replenish what fuels cognitive sharpness in the first place.

If you’ve been telling yourself it’s just a phase, but you know you’re not operating at the level you once did, it may be worth looking deeper. For me, understanding iron changed the direction of the conversation — from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What might my body need?”

And that was the beginning of getting my edge back.

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